ADVICE COLUMN FOR JULY Dear Liza, I’ve been in a long distance relationship with another man for exactly one year. I’m 32, and this is my first “real” relationship. And my first time being in love. At first, things with my boyfriend were absolutely great. However, my boyfriend has a tendency to just completely shut […]
Dear Liza,I am a 50 year old gay man. About five months ago, I met a really wonderful guy. We began dating, and we fell head over heels for each other. In the past 5 months, we didn’t directly address monogamy. However, we both said that as soon as we’d met, we both stopped seeing
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My best friend (‘A’, they) has made their partner (‘B’, he) into a bit of a project, and I’m struggling to decide whether I flag it to them — I can’t figure out if it’s healthy or not. I know this isn’t my relationship, but I care about my bestie a lot and if this
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The good news is that attachment styles are not set in stone. Through self-awareness, therapy, and secure relationships, it’s possible to develop healthier patterns. Here are some steps to get started: • Increase self-awareness: Reflect on how your attachment style affects your behaviors, thoughts, and feelings in relationships. • Challenge core beliefs: Question fears of abandonment or intimacy and
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Dear Liza, I think there’s something really wrong with me, when it comes to romantic and/or sexual relationships. I am a 18 yr old girl, and I’m in my first year of college. In HS, most of my friends were “boy crazy”. However, I didn’t feel any interest in boys. At the
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