Breakups

Mixed Messages

Q – I am a 29 year old gay man, who’s five years sober.I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in recovery to accept and love myself. I met a guy in AA in May who at the time was nine months sober. His sobriety coincided with him coming out. He’s 27 […]

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Concerned

Dear Liza,I am writing to you, because I’m concerned about the future of my relationship. I am beginning law school at Villanova in a week. My partner of three years was also supposed to attend Villanova law school with me. However, he was only accepted at Boston University law school. This obviously means we will

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Feeling Hopeless

ADVICE COLUMN FOR JULY Dear Liza, I’ve been in a long distance relationship with another man for exactly one year. I’m 32, and this is my first “real” relationship. And my first time being in love. At first, things with my boyfriend were absolutely great. However, my boyfriend has a tendency to just completely shut

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What to do?

Dear Liza,I’m a 42 year old, Cis gay man. About a month ago, I met someone. He is also in his early 40’s, and we have really been enjoying dating and getting to know each other better.However, a couple of days ago, he told me that he’s not out yet. He is not out to

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Lost the Spark

Dear Liza I’m a gay man, in a long-term relationship, with another man and my partner and I have always had a healthy sex life. However, recently I’ve noticed that my desire for sex has decreased significantly, and I’m not sure why. This is starting to cause some tension between us, as my partner has

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