Human Sexuality

Mixed Messages

Q – I am a 29 year old gay man, who’s five years sober.I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in recovery to accept and love myself. I met a guy in AA in May who at the time was nine months sober. His sobriety coincided with him coming out. He’s 27 […]

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Jealous and Concerned

Dear Liza,          I am a 29 year old gay man. For the past year, I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with an absolutely wonderful boyfriend. However, there is one thing that I’m really having trouble accepting. My boyfriend once hooked up with a man for one night only. But, after their

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Lost the Spark

Dear Liza I’m a gay man, in a long-term relationship, with another man and my partner and I have always had a healthy sex life. However, recently I’ve noticed that my desire for sex has decreased significantly, and I’m not sure why. This is starting to cause some tension between us, as my partner has

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