Liza Linder

Mixed Messages

Q – I am a 29 year old gay man, who’s five years sober.I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in recovery to accept and love myself. I met a guy in AA in May who at the time was nine months sober. His sobriety coincided with him coming out. He’s 27

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Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: Meeting All Your Inner Parts

As a therapist, I often tell clients, “You’re not too much—you’re just made up of a lot.” Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy takes this to heart. It’s a compassionate, evidence-based approach that sees each person as having many different “parts” inside—like an inner family—with each one holding its own feelings, memories, and roles. The Big

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Concerned

Dear Liza,I am writing to you, because I’m concerned about the future of my relationship. I am beginning law school at Villanova in a week. My partner of three years was also supposed to attend Villanova law school with me. However, he was only accepted at Boston University law school. This obviously means we will

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